Friday, April 19, 2013

Four Reasons to Get to Church Early



To The Bridge Community,

I am very encouraged by the spiritual growth in our fellowship! I see members on mission, more people participating in cell family, and more people responding to the good news of Jesus Christ! Gospel in. Gospel out. Thank you all and to God be the Glory!!

As we head deeper into spring and the summer months, I want to remind you why it is important to continue arriving to our church gatherings early. This could also be re-packaged for our cell family gatherings as well.

Four reasons to not be late:

Reason #1 - It has a negative impact on visitors. When a lot of people arrive late it gives visitors more reason to feel uncomfortable and isolated. Additionally, if everyone arrives late (along with many visitors) there are much longer check-in lines to BK.

Reason #2 - It has a negative impact on our relational community. Many of us only see each other once a week, or at best twice a week. Come early and connect with the family! Laugh with one another. Pray for one another. Love on one another. Spend more time with one another!

Reason #3 - It has a negative impact on your ability to worship. The beginning of our celebrations are thoughtfully put together to direct your mind and heart towards God. Frequently being late, or just simply feeling rushed, can hinder your focus on the main thing--worshiping JESUS.

Reason #4 - It has a negative impact on our volunteers. For instance, the worship team has to lead the song while people are scrambling to their seats and talking aloud. The first impressions teams end up missing more and more of the worship time as they filter regulars to their seats (guests are always welcome to arrive late or anytime for that matter). It simply makes planning celebrations hard. If we wanted to start off celebrations with scripture reading and prayer, it is next to impossible if everyone arrives late. Additionally, it makes children's ministry tough as kids filter in late.

I love you all. This is not heavy-handed church discipline. I promise! In fact, every church goes through seasons where people arrive late and every member of a church will be late at some point. But, let's do our best to think through a practical theology of arriving early to church for the glory of God and our joy! Then, do your part to put it into practice!

-pastor ben
For celebrations times visit: http://www.bridgelife360.com 

Much of this post was inspired by Joe Thorn's reflections this week.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Parallax View Videos


I thought I would share a few more Parallax View video memories. If you missed the ones from yesterday and the announcement, check it out here. You may need flash to watch them all. I am sure I'll find a few more later.

Parallax View - 2009 Promo Video from Seth Durbin on Vimeo.

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

The ride has been more than good


Parallax View fans past and present: 

This weekend will be my last with Parallax View. It is with joy in my heart that I share the news. I have many fond memories of leading worship at retreats and rocking out at concerts, but I enjoyed most of all spending time with my brother and the friends (Andy, Josh, Randall, Mark, Matt, Kaleb, John) that I have made along the way. The ride has been more than good. But, it is time to exit the ride and begin a new one. And the closing of one chapter means the beginning of the next. 

When we started Parallax View (Seth, Mark, and I), I was a single dude working for Youth For Christ and struggling to live out my faith. I picked up a guitar my senior year of high school and shortly thereafter started writing songs as a way to cry out to God. Since that time I got married, had three kids, grew in my faith and planted a church. While I still love singing, God has led me to a higher calling in life.

I am now the Lead Pastor for The Bridge Community Church in Leadington, MO. We are a part of the Acts29 church planting network. These days I find myself preaching weekly, leading a staff, training church leaders, and shepherding a growing faith community. I may continue writing songs with the music community that has been born out of our fellowship, but I feel that the Lord has asked me to focus in on preaching and lay down outside ventures. I believe for three reasons.

Reason #1: I love preaching and desire to preach a lot more and grow in my calling.

Reason #2: I love the local church and messy community. While events are fun, purposeful, and have valid meaning--I am finding that life on life as a faith community is where I thrive. To put it simply, I love the simple-messy-broken-local church community and think it is the hope of the world. I desire and long for true community.

Reason #3: It is Seth and Josh's time to shine in music. They are the future of music in our faith community along with Tisa Ayers. It is their day. And my brother Seth is a better musician than I will ever be.

These reasons motivate my decision to lay down my musical pursuit with joy, give it all to God, and let Him lead the next moves.

What is next for me: I desire to passionately pursue Jesus Christ. To be a good husband, father,and pastor. Then when I die, live forever.

Listen to Music:
http://www.myspace.com/parallaxviewband -newer stuff plus a few old. "I Cry Out - my first written song is there).

http://www.shoutlife.com/parallaxview -- some old stuff

Some Memories of the Past:






















You can watch and find more videos here.


 Chapter 2 Begins...

Monday, March 25, 2013

Romans Reboot and Holy Week


Church, it is a big week! We finish our 21 day fast. We finish Romans Reboot. And it is Holy Week! 

1- If you were unable to participate in the 21 day fast, I encourage you to still fast three days this week. Let's spend time with the Lord. There are recipes, prayer items, and devotionals at http://www.relentlessjesus.com 

2 - Read chapters 13-16 to finish off Romans Reboot. Here is what to look for. Chapter 13 continues the marks of Christian community. 14:1-15:13 is a call for mutual acceptance between the strong and the weak. 15:14 -33 speaks of the establishment of churches among the gentiles. 16:1-23 shows Paul's genuine love of for fellow laborers in the gospel. Then, it ends in 16:25-27 with a summary of the Gospel of the Righteousness of God!

3 - It is Holy Week. If you have ever wondered what happened on each day during Holy Week, check out this series of blog posts. http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/justintaylor/category/holy-week/

In remembrance of Holy Week we will have a cross station with communion available on Good Friday at Leadington. You can come in any time between 7am to Midnight on Friday to participate. There will be an activity, devotional reading, prayer area and communion. Then, we will have the David Platt Secret Church simulcast from 6pm - 12am. 

Finally, INVITE-INVITE-INVITE. Resurrection Sunday celebrations are less than a week away. You should be receiving an e-news invite to Easter celebrations today that you can forward to your friends. Also, invite them via Facebook and Twitter. You can share the Relentless promo video with an invite to join you for Easter.

FOR LEADINGTON: 

I was __________ then Jesus pursued me. Join me at The Bridge this Easter to learn about God's relentless love. https://vimeo.com/59809155

FOR Arnold: 

I was___________ then Jesus pursued me. Join me at The Bridge this Easter to learn about God's relentless love.  https://vimeo.com/59811551

Make sure and tell your friends the celebration times!

Monday, March 4, 2013

Romans Reboot



Yesterday I challenged the fellowship to make six commitments. One of the six commitments was to fill your mind with God's truth. So, how about reading a book of the Bible together leading up to Easter? This is a great way to reboot your Bible reading if you have slowed or stopped. 

Here’s your invitation: Join me in reading through Romans in March. Why Romans? Because it’s a book Martin Luther described in this way:

We find in this letter, then, the richest possible teaching about what a Christian should know: the meaning of law, Gospel, sin, punishment, grace, faith, justice, Christ, God, good works, love, hope and the cross.

Romans reveals God's judging and saving righteousness in the gospel of Jesus Christ. In the cross of Christ, God judges sin and yet at the same time shows his saving mercy. My hope is that your faith in Christ and all he’s done for you will grow and produce fruit in your life.

Note: I stole this idea from Elyse Fitspatrick and adapted it for our faith family. 

The Reading Plan:

March 3-9, chapters 1-4
March 10-16, chapters 5-8
March 17-23, chapters 9-12
March 24-30, chapters 13-16

An outline to help look at the flow of week 1 reading. 
The Gospel as the Revelation of the Righteousness of God (1:1–17)
Salutation: the gospel concerning God’s Son (1:1–7)
Thanksgiving: prayer for an apostolic visit (1:8–15)
Theme: the gospel of the righteousness of God (1:16–17)

God’s Righteousness in His Wrath against Sinners (1:18–3:20)
The unrighteousness of the Gentiles (1:18–32)
The unrighteousness of the Jews (2:1–3:8)
The unrighteousness of all people (3:9–20)

The Saving Righteousness of God (3:21–31)
God’s righteousness in the death of Jesus (3:21–26)
Righteousness by faith for Jews and Gentiles (3:27–31)

Happy reading. Romans Reboot! If you want to read along with the rest of The Bridge Community Church, please join The Table today. Weekly outlines and discussions will be posted there. 

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Thursday, February 28, 2013

Full Abandon

Bridge Faith Family, 

This Sunday we celebrate seven years of gospel work together! More than ever I am committed to making disciples who make more disciples for His fame. The early church was fiercely committed to Jesus because they knew how full life was with the one who relentlessly pursued them. Their very reason for living had changed and due to this they radically abandoned their lives for something far better. They found true life in Christ. We can too!!!! 

Following Jesus did mean radical abandon for the early church and it still means that for us today. BUT, more than duty, this is an overwhelming delight. What could possibly bring more meaning to life than following Jesus? 

I can't wait to preach Acts 5;12-42. Please take a few moments on Friday or Saturday to read ahead.  I am going to share 14 signs of life in the early multiplying church, share a  battle cry for 2013, and challenge everyone to make six commitments as we head into year eight!

I desire to passionately pursue life in Christ with full abandon, then when they put me in the ground,  live forever

Please join me. 

--pastor ben

Monday, February 25, 2013

Self-Help Is No Help Really

I preached a strong message yesterday. Looking back on it, I agree, it was strong. Being an introvert at heart, something such as that is never "easy" for me. My introverted tendencies may surprise you, but I am much better in front of large crowds than one on one or in small groups. So as I would rather go back to reading books and writing future sermons, I want to first be self-critical. I am a sinner in need of grace.  But by God's grace I am fiercely committed to the gospel as well as committed to seeking the protection of the local church I shepherd. 

Paul's words to the Ephesian elders in Acts 20 fuel me. This passage below and 2 Timothy 3-4 often keep me awake at night.

Therefore I testify to you this day that I am innocent of the blood of all, for I did not shrink from declaring to you the whole counsel of God. Pay careful attention to yourselves and to all the flock, in which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to care for the church of God, which he obtained with his own blood. I know that after my departure fierce wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock; and from among your own selves will arise men speaking twisted things, to draw away the disciples after them. Therefore be alert, remembering that for three years I did not cease night or day to admonish every one with tears. And now I commend you to God and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up and to give you the inheritance among all those who are sanctified. I coveted no one's silver or gold or apparel. You yourselves know that these hands ministered to my necessities and to those who were with me. In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’” (Acts 20:26-35 ESV)

Today, I want to share why I believe self-help driven teachings are ultimately no help. This was not the focus of the message yesterday, but it was a part that caused some cordial discussion in the social media world.  I realize that this may not be not be popular, but I do think it is needed or I would simply let it fall as it may. I also realize that when one posts a message like this you may get accused of being a sin obsessed-Pharisee that doesn't believe in the power of prayer. I'll get to that later. Or being an angry little man. I'll get to that later as well.

The Background: Acts 4 - the religious leaders of the day try to stop Peter and John from proclaiming the gospel. They did so by attempting to discredit a miracle, stop others from seeing the disciples had been with Jesus, and by threatening them that they must adapt their message from being Jesus (gospel) centered to being about anything else. I then shared that I believe that this is still a major tactic of satanic scheming today and a very good one at that. This plan to stop the movement and multiplication of disciples involves getting preachers/teachers to rely on manufactured strategy rather than the supernatural God, allowing church attenders to believe you can meet Jesus and not be changed and made different in some way (progress will happen), and by changing the content of the message to not be gospel centered thus removing it from its power (Romans 1:16). Sounds ok right?

Then I shared in essence that I believe this is all very rampant in our day. We are often taught to only think rational and deny the supernatural. We are often offended by scripture that declares that God doesn't leave us to our sin but is changing us and calling us to lead lives of grace-driven effort. And that I DO think many popular teachings are dangerous and often gospel-less.

And here is why. Messages that focus on the necessity to go self-actualize your potential, speak your future into existence, or think positively and your life will follow are actually LAW not GRACE.

I do believe that many who proclaim these sorts of teachings weekly sincerely want to help people who feel beaten down by life and who feel guilty for their failures and mistakes. But the “positive” message is in actuality this: Do better. Try harder. Believe you can succeedIn other words,  just do it! God will help you, of course, but you have to make it happen. 

Though many proclaim these are positive sermons, I believe they are  negative. It is like telling the aids orphan to “just snap out of it!” Or  giving people burdened by sin, guilt and despair more reason to despair when they fail to succeed, lose health, or their spoken words are not actualized (which by the way is Carl Roger's Humanism--more on that later)

I do not think that more willpower will solve our real problem. That message is Law--what the Pharisees clung to over Jesus'  sacrificial death for sinners. It shouts, "You must perform!" There is no actual gospel in this message, even if you attach Jesus' name to it.  It is frankly more reminiscent of a Care Bears episode, a Nike slogan, or the american dream.  The only “good news”  in that message is telling self-centered people (of which I am one) to look for salvation in more narcissism.  And I believe it is ultimately speeding up death.

Those are strong words...

What about the power of our words?
Below is an excerpt of teaching from Jared Wilson that helps us think rightly about this question. You can read his full post here. 

There are three biblical ways words can bring life:

1. We can generally agree that the tongue is a powerful force. Just read James 3. But you don’t have to be a charismaniac to realize that words can hurt or comfort. Encouragement edifies; nagging and criticism do not. Many of us still carry wounds from words said to us in our past.
2. Also, those of us of the Reformed persuasion are quick to affirm the supernatural power available in the written Word of God spoken. The gospel is power. When God speaks, things happen. And the Holy Spirit uses the foolishness of preaching to stir dead men’s souls and waken sleeping men’s senses.
3. Those of us of the continuationist persuasion can agree that God sometimes heals people through humbly administered gifts of healing and the laying on of hands, and nearly all Christians can agree that God sometimes heals people through the effectual prayers of the saints. In both cases things change when words are spoken, but in neither case is the speaker’s tongue the source of creative power. God is.

In all three of those senses, speaking words is powerful and life-giving. But in no biblical sense is merely speaking words God’s way of creating material or medical prosperity. In no sense is this formulaic. In other words, it does not follow that if someone is experiencing major setbacks it is because they aren’t “speaking words of prosperity over” their lives. Likewise, it does not follow that everyone who does speak such words will reap circumstantial goodness.

Jared goes on to write....

The gospel doesn’t traffic in circumstantial goodness. Most of the New Testament, in fact, presupposes circumstantial badness.

The Word of Faith view of the power of the tongue is owed more to the world of The Secret or genies in rubbed lamps.

So, what do we call the idea that by speaking certain words you can create realities? That’s called incantation. That’s called sorcery. It’s called witchcraft. And that is a damnable offense.

To put it simply, it is the object of our faith rather than the quality of our words that is ultimately determinate. We are to pray, ask, and call on God and give Him glory for the "yes," or trust His "no."

If you take the word of faith movement to its logical conclusion, a parent must take the blame if a child dies of disease. Do you feel the crushing weight of that law?

Biblical Gospel or Humanism? 
I am deeply convicted that Biblical gospel preaching is much different than humanism. Humanism focuses on the inherent good inside of us and human potential. This sounds terrific. But the biblical diagnosis of the heart apart from the supernatural grace of God is bleak. 

The heart is deceitful above all things,and desperately sick; who can understand it? - (Jeremiah 17:9 ESV)

Our heart apart from God's grace tricks us and deceives us into thinking that our desires are pure. It tells us that what we want is good and that God approves. However, many of our ways seem right in our own eyes but still lead to death and Hell. We must be mindful. 

From Jesus' lips, 

For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander. These are what defile a person. But to eat with unwashed hands does not defile anyone.” - (Matthew 15:19-20 ESV)

We have a heart problem that cannot be corrected by trusting in our own potential or performing simple outward behavioral modification (in fact I have met several morally upright non-Christians).  Our heart must be supernaturally changed by God via the Holy Spirit through repentance and faith (which are two sides of the same coin), as we turn from ourselves and to Christ's sufficient work for us on the cross to satisfy God's wrath and reconcile us to God.  

A few more questions that tend to be brought up...

Is it a sin to be rich? 
This question often gets asked in these discussions. No. Nor is it a sin to have a large church, write books, and take speaking engagements. I have taught out what is below many times. I hope this helps.

Here are some common errors in regards to wealth
1.  Prosperity Theology – teaches those who are rich are more righteous than those who are poor
a.  Jesus instead gives stiff warnings that those with wealth will have a tendency to attempt to base their     justification in works and wealth
b.  In the words of a famous rapper Notorious BIG, “Mo Money, Mo Problems.” (kidding, smile, try not to rap it outloud)
c.  The early disciples were righteous in Christ and lost everything for Him, even their lives.
2.  Poverty Theology – teaches those who are poor are more righteous than those who are rich
a.  When you really think about it, God himself is wealthy. But He is wealthy and generous.
b.  God does use wealthy people in the Bible: Abraham, Solomon, Joseph of Arimethea, and his own ministry is supported by two wealthy women named Johanna and Susanna (Luke 8:3).
c.  Jesus doesn’t say stop creating wealth in this passage. He does say give to the poor and come follow me.
d.  Jesus isn’t against wealth, but He does demand worship and radical generosity from the wealthy.

Is it ever ok to be angry? Are we not called to love our enemies?
Yes and yes. There is righteous anger all throughout the Bible, as well as challenging messages given. And often the most loving thing you can do is guard against error by confronting dangers with conviction. This is different than seeking harm and is actually part of the pastoral task as directed in the pastoral epistles. Hopefully, this is what I did. But remember, I am a sinner in need of grace that has heart issues outside of the supernatural grace of God.  But by God's grace I am fiercely committed to the gospel as well as committed to seeking the protection of the local church that I shepherd. 

Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, -(Ephesians 4:25-26 ESV)

Self-Help is No Help Really??
Why would I choose this title on a post such as this? You certainly can see improvement in your career and personal goal achievement through a stronger work ethic. I shout in agreement that young men need to recover their grandfather's work ethic more than they need to recover their grandfather's clothing style. But sheer will-power pales in helping us deal with the hardest things in life. In these instances we must rely and rest  in God. And self-reliance is wholly opposed to the radical free grace God gives to repentant sinners. .

So Christian...
If you work hard and fail to get the promotion or lose your job due to unforeseen circumstances, God still loves you in Christ. If you go broke and scrape your pennies together to buy canned-goods, God still favors you in Christ. If your path in life involves suffering, remember that Jesus is described as the suffering servant in the Bible (Isaiah and Mark)-- all while God the Father still favored and loved Him.

And if your child develops Spinal-Muscular-Atrophy, and you pray fervently for years to no avail to watch her slowly die, God still loves you and loved her in Christ. 

Note: You can listen to the sermon here