Saturday, January 14, 2012
Teaching notes: Christ Centered Worship at Man Up
Christ-Centered Worship
Man Up Family Night of Worship
Benjamin Durbin
Colossians 3:1-17
Key Truth #1: Everyone worships something
One of my greatest fears is that God would look at our events, our services, and our lives and proclaim this passage from Matthew 5:18
"'This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me; in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.'" Matthew 15:8-9
Would he look at us and say they pray, they sing, and they preach for nothing. It is vain. Empty?
The Big Question
What is my heart supposed to be doing so that the preaching and singing is not in vain?
Or
What turns all of life into worship?
The Answer:
Being satisfied with all that God is for us in Christ!
Key Truth #2: Right worship comes from a heart position that magnifies Christ
"If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory." - Colossians 3:1-4
Key Truth #3: When you see your position in Christ, you will worship
1) I died with Christ. vs. 3
2) I live with Christ vs. 4
3) I am raised with Christ vs. 1
4) I am hidden in Christ. vs. 3
5) I am glorified in Christ vs. 4
The life of a Christ-Centered Worshiper
In view of my wonderful identity in Christ,
I seek and set my heart and mind on things above.
Key Truth #4: I am dead, so I put to death the earthly.
"Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. On account of these the wrath of God is coming. In these you too once walked, when you were living in them. But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all."
Key Truth #5: The opposite of right worship is idolatry
Worship Distortions
Pleasure
Power
Pride
People
Key Truth #6: I am alive, so I bring to life the heavenly
"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God." - Colossians 3:12-16
Note how many things we do TOGETHER in this passage
Note the variety of expressions: teaching, admonishing, psalms, hymns, spiritual songs.
Key Truth #7: Worship is all of life
"And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." - Colossians 3:17
Worship is continuous in the everyday activities of life
We do not simply go to the church for worship. It is just as much about how we live when we are not gathered.
But as continuous worshipers, we do gather ourselves together to continue our worship, but now in the context of our family in Christ.
Key Truth #8: The way to worship is falling madly in love with Jesus.
Worship is responding to God for who He is, what He has done, and what He is doing.
"And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience- among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ-by grace you have been saved- and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus." - Ephesians 2:1-7
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Haiti Teaching - Spiritual Gifts
Thursday, October 27, 2011
The Gospel of Mark Overview

Friday, October 21, 2011
Steps for Inductive Bible Study
Monday, September 26, 2011
Evidences of Grace
Evidences of Grace since our last Member’s Meeting
The Bridge Community Church
We exist to make disciples who make disciples
by helping people believe it, grow it, send it
[ IT is the GOSPEL]
- · Believe it --- evidences of grace
o 7 baptisms September 18, 2011
o 48 total baptisms this year!!!
o ***Prayer goal for the next year = 96 baptisms
o 18 baby dedications this year!!!
o I believe we had our first child that was dedicated at The Bridge baptized this year. Elijah Yount.
o ***Our prayer goal is to keep having and adopting babies who take over the county! Little Bridge Kids for the gospel everyhere.
o GROWTH in BK - we expanded BK into two celebrations bringing the gospel to more children.
o GROWTH in celebrations – we are seeing larger crowds at 9:00 AM and an increase in overall attendance.
o CA – we are bringing the gospel to more people via CA than ever before. This year CA has ran in the prison, jail, csc, at the journey in Herky, and at The Bridge. Our largest CA ever is taking place right now.
o Night in Bethlehem – 1100 people through the doors to hear about the good news of Jesus
- · GROW IT – evidences of grace
o New cell families – Brian & Sarah Dunlap, Zack & Jen Mills, Ronnie & Angie Buckingham, New leadership cell, Ladies daytimer cell/ Juanita Gray, Stan & Christina Jackson, Bismark/Brown cell, Fredericktown/Bollinger, Derek & Tiffany Barker youth cell.
o The Leadership cell is training potentially four new cell starts right now.
o *** Our prayer goal is for 10 new cell starts this year, and 100 new people in cell.
o Two elder tracks going strong. Elder Track #1 recently finished a workbook with 20 sessions on Bible doctrine.
o Three secret church simulcasts on Salvation, OT Survey, and NT Survey. (These can be used as cell resources). Financial Seminar – cell resource
o Sermon Series: We finished 1 Corinthians and made it through Spiritual Gifts, Are You Smarter than a Corinthian, and From Death to Life among other mini-series in the letter, A Global Christmas – helped feed kids and pay teachers salaries at an Orphanage in Haiti, Habbakuk, Always True (cell resource) Into the Light (1,2, 3 John), Currently on part 9 of Mark.
o Two Night of Worship celebrations where we joined together to sing our hearts out for King Jesus.
o Women’s events – Beth Moore, Priscilla Shire, Mother’s and Others (MOMMY RHAPSODY)… Man UP , Youth Ski Trip, One Initiative, Couples Retreat
o Added Lance to full time pastoral staff. Re-explain prophet, priest, king
- · Send it – evidences of grace
o Camp Pennuel Mission Weekend
o Joplin Mission Trip
o Youth 3MT Mission Trip
o Youth Costa Rica Mission Trip
o Tim – India, Goldsmith’s to Haiti
o Advent Conspiracy
o Arnold cell and movement towards a second campus
o New Volunteers – large increase in BK workers, first Impressions volunteers, new cell leaders, new musicians, CA workers, missional cell
o *** Our prayer goal should be to see at least one new volunteer each weekend. There are 52 weeks a year.
o We have several families considering picking up and moving to Arnold to help with the launch of our second campus.
o Internet –
§ our videos have been watched in 114 different countries
§ We average 65,000 hits a month on bridgelife360.com
§ There were 102,000 hits in the month of December alone
§ On Vimeo there have been 39,000 videos viewed alone. We also put up videos on three other online venues
§ Top videos with partial plays = All Because of Jesus off the old DVD, The Christmas NOW
§ Top videos played all the way through last year = Mommy Rhapsody, Shadows
§ Top sermons watched actually happened last September, but were watched most since OCT. 1) Tough Love – Divorce and Remarriage 2) Tough Love – Good Sex, Bad Sex)
o Our cells are on mission as well!!!
o ** Pray for the upcoming scheduled mission trips to Haiti, Liberia, and Nicaragua this year. Also pray for those that are not scheduled yet locally, state-side, and with our youth.
o *** Pray for our Advent Conspiracy season this year and the offering. Where should we focus internationally with these funds? India? Haiti? Nicaragua?
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Becky and I are going to Haiti
Friends and Family,
Becky and I have decided to go on mission to Haiti this fall, together! Our faith community (The Bridge Community Church) supports New Hope Missions International and their church planting efforts and schools in northern Haiti. We will be going in partnership with Tennessee Valley Community Church, which also supports NHMI. While we are there we will work on NHMI's fifth church plant/school location (pouring concrete) in addition to some other exciting opportunities.
Mission Opportunities:
I will encourage and train the five pastors from NHMI's five churches (5th currently being built/constructed)
Becky will assist in medical clinics with people from our church, TVCC, and the NHMI crew in the areas the churches are located
Others from both churches will assist in the medical clinics and/or pouring concrete for a new church
- We will get to meet and spend time with the children from the schools and share about Jesus via VBS types of activities
We will assess and be praying about the possibility of sponsoring children in the new church/school location. We are considering bringing this possibility up to our faith community as the advent conspiracy emphasis this year. We hope to assess the need,viability, and appropriateness of this.
We will visit one of the current churches in need of an expansion project due to growth and assess future possibilities
Becky and I are asking for your prayer and support. We could really use your prayers as we prepare to leave.
Pray specifically for:
The pastors of the five churches, their families, and lives
- The construction of the (fifth) church to go smoothly while we are there
- The medical clinics to be safe and ran well
Gospel conversations to develop in the medical clinics, at the construction sites, and in the schools
- My time in teaching/training the five pastors
- Safe and healthy travel for our team (7 from our church, 14 total)
Our financial needs to be met. Total cost for our family will be around $2200 for this trip. We are saving and working extra. Pray for God's provision in and around these times
The financial needs of those traveling with us to be met
- Our children while we are gone
Thank you for partnering in prayer and support for us and the Haitians we will encounter. If you have any questions feel free to ask. I left the dates off of this note because of its public nature.
Others from our church attending to pray for in addition to Becky and I :
1) Michael Goldsmith
2) Melissa Goldsmith
3) Tisa Ayers
4) Bill Janes
5) Chris Guthrie
We do not want to make this trip without the prayers of our friends and family! Begin praying today!
God bless,
Ben and Becky Durbin
BELOW is a Photo from a recent backpack challenge we participated in with NHMI
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Reading List

I haven't updated my reading list in a while so I am sure I'll miss a few. Here are some of the books I've read recently or have been reading through (e.g. the Dever books are still in process).
- Radical Together by David Platt
- Always True by James MacDonald
- Epistles of John by James Montgomery Boice
- Redemption by Mike Wilkerson
- Rid of My Disgrace by Justin and Lindsey Holcomb
- The Message of The New Testament by Mark Dever
- The Message of The Old Testament by Mark Dever
- You Can Change by Tim Chester
- Reverberation by Jonathan Leeman
- Downpour by James MacDonald
- Finally Alive by John Piper
- One-to-One Bible Reading by David Helm
- Christian Beliefs by Wayne Grudem
- Theological Clarity and Application (workbook) by Scott Thomas
Bible Reading:
I currently read a chapter from Psalms, Proverbs, Acts, and Mark a day.