Thursday, February 28, 2013
Full Abandon
This Sunday we celebrate seven years of gospel work together! More than ever I am committed to making disciples who make more disciples for His fame. The early church was fiercely committed to Jesus because they knew how full life was with the one who relentlessly pursued them. Their very reason for living had changed and due to this they radically abandoned their lives for something far better. They found true life in Christ. We can too!!!!
Following Jesus did mean radical abandon for the early church and it still means that for us today. BUT, more than duty, this is an overwhelming delight. What could possibly bring more meaning to life than following Jesus?
I can't wait to preach Acts 5;12-42. Please take a few moments on Friday or Saturday to read ahead. I am going to share 14 signs of life in the early multiplying church, share a battle cry for 2013, and challenge everyone to make six commitments as we head into year eight!
I desire to passionately pursue life in Christ with full abandon, then when they put me in the ground, live forever.
Please join me.
--pastor ben
Monday, February 25, 2013
Self-Help Is No Help Really
To put it simply, it is the object of our faith rather than the quality of our words that is ultimately determinate. We are to pray, ask, and call on God and give Him glory for the "yes," or trust His "no."
If you take the word of faith movement to its logical conclusion, a parent must take the blame if a child dies of disease. Do you feel the crushing weight of that law?
Our heart apart from God's grace tricks us and deceives us into thinking that our desires are pure. It tells us that what we want is good and that God approves. However, many of our ways seem right in our own eyes but still lead to death and Hell. We must be mindful.
Self-Help is No Help Really??
Why would I choose this title on a post such as this? You certainly can see improvement in your career and personal goal achievement through a stronger work ethic. I shout in agreement that young men need to recover their grandfather's work ethic more than they need to recover their grandfather's clothing style. But sheer will-power pales in helping us deal with the hardest things in life. In these instances we must rely and rest in God. And self-reliance is wholly opposed to the radical free grace God gives to repentant sinners. .
So Christian...
If you work hard and fail to get the promotion or lose your job due to unforeseen circumstances, God still loves you in Christ. If you go broke and scrape your pennies together to buy canned-goods, God still favors you in Christ. If your path in life involves suffering, remember that Jesus is described as the suffering servant in the Bible (Isaiah and Mark)-- all while God the Father still favored and loved Him.
And if your child develops Spinal-Muscular-Atrophy, and you pray fervently for years to no avail to watch her slowly die, God still loves you and loved her in Christ.
Note: You can listen to the sermon here
Monday, June 18, 2012
Sermon Notes from "Heart Idols"
| Power Idol | Approval Idol |
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| Security Idol | Comfort Idol |
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- Power Idol - God is glorious so I don't have to produce results. I don't have to make every final decision. (Psalm 24:8)
- Approval Idol – God is gracious so I don't have to prove myself . I can relax. (Psalm 86:16)
- Security Idol – God is great, so I don't have to be in control. I can honestly share weaknesses (Psalm 145:3)
- Comfort Idol – God is good, so I don't have to look elsewhere for comfort, peace, and fulfillment. I can give freely.(Psalm 34:8)
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Date Night Tips
- Send the kids to grandma's for the night and stay home with no technology allowed. Find some candles and see if you can make it without lights for the night! No agenda planned.
- Catch a play at The Muny. (Summer)
- Try out the ice skating at Forest Park. (Winter)
- Go on a hike at Pickle Springs and take a picnic lunch.
- Dress up and head out for dinner date at Chaumette Vineyards and Winery.
- Go for a drive and enjoy the desserts at The Blue Owl.
- Giddy-up for a redneck date: go bowling and then catch some catfish under the stars
- Watch a movie under the stars at the Starlite Drive-in Theatre in Cadet, MO.
- Meet up for coffee and breakfast at The Bauhaus Kafee before work.
- Put on your hiking boots and visit Hickory Canyon.
- Make a picnic lunch and enjoy the afternoon at Charleville.
- Go for a walk at one of the area parks and then enjoy some food at 12 West.
- Instead of taking a lunch break with co-workers, skip the lunch and find a special place to meet up with your spouse.
- Look out over The Mississippi River at The Trail of Tears State Park.
- Plan an overnight date at a bed in breakfast in St. Genevieve.
- Head to St. James and spend an afternoon at Maramec Spring Park.
- Take her for a boat ride at The Boathouse in Forest Park.
- Attend a concert together at Verizon Amphitheater.
- Enjoy a musical at The Fabulous Fox.
- Go for a bike ride at St. Joe State Park
- Keep it simple with dinner and a movie.
- Get dressed up and drop some cash at The Top of the Riverfront.
Monday, April 30, 2012
Teaching Notes: "A Tall Glass of Toilet Water"
Stop drinking toilet water.
Monday, April 23, 2012
"A Tall Glass of Toilet Water"
Bridge Faith Community,
You are part of a culture that spends more money each year on pornography than country music, rock music, jazz music, classical music, Broadway plays, and ballet combined. God tells us that his people tend to satisfy their thirst not by drinking from his streams of living water, but instead drinking from man-made toilets (Jer.2:13). This metaphor is particularly adept in a world where men such as Tom Leykis, Dr. Drew, Howard Stern, and a legion of men’s magazines and porno providers become wealthy by selling glasses of toilet water to thirsty men across our nation, many of whom claim to be sons of God. Meanwhile, the church alone has access to the living water from God’s perfect Word, but largely fails to teach men masculinity in any area, particularly regarding their sexuality.
Join us this Sunday night, April 29th, at 6:00 PM for a special night session called "A Tall Glass of Toilet Water." I will teach on Proverbs 5, Jeremiah 2:13, and Job 31:1 in light of our cultural porn epidemic. On this night we will have a special question and answer session where you can ask any question pertaining to this topic as well as any questions you have regarding our "Real Marriage" series thus far to a panel of men and women.
Women should join their husbands on this evening. Did you know that 1 in 6 women struggle with porn addiction?
There is no childcare for this evening and I do recommend that you secure your own childcare for this night. Please consider joining us. This may be the most important night of your married or future married life.
God bless,
-pastor ben
Friday, April 13, 2012
"Real Marriage" begins at The Bridge Sunday
You don’t need a new spouse; you need to be a new spouse.This week at The Bridge we begin a new series called, "Real Marriage." For the next six weeks we will look at Biblical marriage, friendship, conflict and our responsibility in view of the Gospel. The Gospel declares that you can have a new marriage with the same spouse; you can defeat Satan in your life and marriage by the blood of the Lamb (Rev. 12:11).
Join us this week for, "New Marriage, Same Spouse" as we look at Ephesians 5:21-33.
Series Preview:
April 15 - "New Marriage, Same Spouse"
April 22 - "Friends with Benefits" - friendship
April 29 morning - "Man Up"
April 29 night - "A Tall Glass of Toilet Water" aka the porn path
May 6 - "The Respectful Wife"
May 13 - "Taking out the Trash" - conflict
May 20 morning - "Sex: God, Gross, or Gift?"
May 20 night - "Rid of My Disgrace" aka dealing with abuse
If you are single and considering skipping out on the next six weeks of the "Real Marriage" series to read Lamentations, please reconsider. 9 out of 10 singles statistically will marry. This is great prep work. Also the teaching on friendship, conflict, idols, and seeing how to openly deal with repentance and confession is well worth it.
Also, there are weekly questions for singles in the cell study who choose to go through it.
I love you all whether you are married, once married, or single!


